ONLINE WEDDING RSVP
The wedding RSVP
that asks your questions.
Attendance for each event, meal choice, plus-ones: already built in. Now add your own questions — shuttle, hotel, kids, the song that gets them dancing — and find every answer under each guest’s name. Free, with no separate form to send.
- Free, like your whole wedding website
- Your questions: yes/no, choices, number, date, text or song
- Asked of each person, or once per invitation
- Only for guests attending, or for the rehearsal dinner, the brunch…
- Answers filed under each guest’s name, with no duplicates
- Automatic totals and ready-to-send lists: shuttle, DJ playlist, hotel
- Personal-link reminders for a question added late
- Your Google Form imported by pasting its link
RSVP
I, Emily,will be attending the festivities.
I'm most excited about:
- Religious Ceremony
- Reception Dinner
And a few questions from us:
Will you take the shuttle from the hotel?
How many kids are coming with you?
2The song that gets you on the dance floor
A note for the couple
We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
FREE
Your questions, free.
Adding questions to your RSVP costs nothing, just like the rest of your Anatole wedding website. Conditional questions, Google Form import, lists and reminders are not locked behind a paid plan, and no ads ever appear on your page.
- Custom questions included
- Per-event and conditional questions included
- Totals, lists and exports at no extra cost
- AI drafting and Google Form import included
- No ads, ever
WEDDING RSVP, EXPLAINED
What questions should you ask on a wedding RSVP?
A wedding RSVP first asks the essentials: whether each guest is attending each event, their meal choice, dietary needs and plus-ones. Then come the questions your planning depends on — shuttle, hotel, number of kids, arrival date, a song request, a note for the couple. On Anatole the essentials are built in; the rest you add to the same form, instead of texting your guests a separate Google Form.
RSVP QUESTION IDEAS
Wedding RSVP question ideas
Start from a ready-made question and tweak it, or write your own. Each one takes the format that makes answering easy.
Shuttle
Yes / no
Who is taking the shuttle from the hotel or the ceremony? Asked of each person, so the passenger list is ready for the driver.
Hotel
Single choice
Who is staying in your hotel block, who needs a room nearby? You know how many beds to plan for, and for whom.
Kids
Number
How many kids are coming with the family? Asked once per invitation, to plan kids’ meals and childcare.
Arrival date
Date
When are out-of-town guests arriving? They pick from your dates — ideal for a destination or weekend-long wedding.
Song request
Song search
What song will get them dancing? Guests search for the track, and you get a playlist ready to send to your DJ.
A note for you
Free text
A message, a memory, a wish: a few lines to enjoy reading before the big day.
Your own question
Yes / no, choice, number, date, text
Carpooling, a parking spot, the Saturday afternoon activity: ask anything, in the format that fits it.
IN A FEW MINUTES
How do you add your own questions to a wedding RSVP?
No separate form: your questions live in the RSVP of your free wedding website. Here’s how.
- 1
Create your wedding website
Free, with no technical skills needed. The RSVP is ready to go: attendance for each event, meal choice, plus-ones and dietary needs.
- 2
Add your questions
Pick a ready-made idea, describe what you want to know and let AI draft the questions, or paste the link to your Google Form.
- 3
Choose who answers
Each person or once per invitation, only guests attending, only guests of one event, or based on an earlier answer.
- 4
Share personal links
Send each guest their own link by WhatsApp, text or email. They answer in one go: attendance and questions together.
- 5
Get the answers
Every answer appears under the guest’s name, totals add up on their own, and lists — shuttle, playlist, hotel — are ready to send.
THE RIGHT GUESTS
Every question, asked of the right guests
Guests only see the questions that concern them: the RSVP stays short, and the answers stay accurate.
Each person, or once per invitation
The shuttle question goes to everyone, plus-ones included; the number of kids is asked just once for the whole family.
Only guests attending
Someone who can’t make it doesn’t need to pick a song. A question can also go to everyone, including those who decline.
Only for one event
A question tied to the rehearsal dinner or the brunch only shows to guests of that event who are coming.
Based on an earlier answer
“Which hotel are you staying at?” only appears to guests who said yes to the shuttle.
FOR THE COUPLE
Every answer, under each guest’s name
No spreadsheet to reconcile: guests answer from their personal link, and their answers land straight in your guest list.
Shuttle from the hotel
- Emily CarterYes
- Jake CarterYes
- Maya PatelNo
- Ryan BrooksNo answer
No “full name” field, no duplicates
No need to ask who is answering: each answer is tied to the guest, and an updated answer replaces the old one.
Totals that add up on their own
Yes, no, every option, every number: it’s all counted, with a list of the guests who haven’t answered yet.
Lists ready to send
Shuttle list for the driver, playlist for the DJ, hotel list for the venue, notes to read: downloaded in one tap.
Added a question late? Send a reminder
Guests who already replied show up as “no answer”: remind them with their personal link, or enter an answer you got by phone.
IN SECONDS
Your questions, drafted for you
Short on ideas, or already have a form? Two shortcuts.
Describe what you want to know
“There’s a shuttle from the hotel on Saturday, and a brunch on Sunday.”
AI drafts the questions and picks their format. You review them, tweak them, and add the ones you like.
Paste your Google Form link
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Its questions are brought into your RSVP. The ones Anatole already asks — meal, allergies, plus-ones, address — are recognized, so nothing gets asked twice.
INSTEAD OF A SEPARATE FORM
Why not just use a Google Form?
A separate form works, but its answers live far from your guest list. In your RSVP, they land right in it.
| Separate form | Your website’s RSVP | |
|---|---|---|
| Who replied | Guests type their name, sometimes misspelled | The answer lands under the guest’s name |
| Duplicates | Two submissions, two rows to sort out | One answer per person, updated if it changes |
| Plus-ones | Often one submission for the whole family | Each person answers, or once per invitation |
| Counting | Done by hand in a spreadsheet | Automatic totals and lists |
| No reply yet | Guesswork against your guest list | A no-answer list and one-tap reminders |
| Look | A separate page, outside your website | Inside your RSVP, in your wedding’s colors |
PRICING
Free, questions included
The RSVP and your questions are part of the Anatole wedding website — completely free, with no ads and no commitment.
RSVP with your questions
$0/ free
- Attendance per event, meal choice, plus-ones, dietary needs
- Your questions: yes/no, choice, number, date, text, song
- Per person, per invitation, per event or conditional
- Answers under each guest’s name, automatic totals
- Shuttle, DJ playlist and hotel lists
- Personal-link reminders by WhatsApp, text or email
- AI drafting and Google Form import
FAQ
Your wedding RSVP questions, answered
How do I set up an online wedding RSVP?+
What questions should I ask on my wedding RSVP?+
Is there a free wedding RSVP website?+
Can I use my Google Form for wedding RSVPs?+
Can I ask a question only of rehearsal dinner guests?+
Do plus-ones answer the questions too?+
What if I add a question after guests have RSVP’d?+
What does RSVP stand for?+
READY?
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